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Friday, July 20, 2012

Blessings:)


        Small thing's equal big blessing's. Our home is filled with the smell of cookies
and play-dough....  We have modeling  clay on some table during the day! I don't
have hundred dollar picture's on the wall's... I mostly have drawings and finger
 painting's.....And  I love it!

       Before having children I would look at mom's and say why would you
 keep these picture's up? They make your home look unorganized and without 
 style....They would tell me "your just messing out on the best part"..When my niece was
 born I was about nineteen, my sister and I arnt best friend's but we have  became
 closer.... It helped me to understand the blessing it is for  moms to show case their
 children's art!

     So being a mom of three I have clay and play-dough everywhere most day's,
there is always something baking and cooking.... My wall has been over taking with
 art work, I have consumed box's of art work as well.... I have a load of laundry
always to be done..I make the bed's and they are filled with doll's and stuff
animals by the end of the day! I get to express my love by hanging these
picture's proudly through out our home...

    I get questions from (non-mother's) do you have a room with-out toy's?  Do you
 ever sit down?  Are you ever away from the bathroom,a stove, or do you ever go
 one day without your kids?

    The answer is no I don't have me time until bed time and that is spent  cleaning
and preparing for the next day....I cook three meals and bake with my
girls almosteveryday and enjoy every minute of it...... Any mother
knows  our days can be over whelming and stressful.... But I wake up with
 a smile on my face no matter how stressful it can get!

   I'm a very proud mama of three of the most amazing kids ever! I love
 whole heartedly even through the stressful day's.. I think GOD
everyday for my "unorganized style"hee hee! Our home is a show case
 for all art work, with the wonderfuk sounds of happy laughter filling
our hall way, I wouldn't change a thing!

      Thank you lord for the small thing's in life...you have blessed me with a great
husband like no other in this world, three amazing children whom love me
unconditionally as I do them  and a foundation to build on...... Our faith lays with you lord I'm truly blessed because of your powerful love....Amen



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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Our Roles!

       Who do we submit to on a daily bases?
-Employee's submit to his or her employer...... (Colossians 3:22)
-Citizens submit to governmental authority.....(1 Peter 2:13)
-Believers submit to a spiritual authority.....(1 Peter 5:5)
-Children submit to his or hers parents.......(Ephesians 6:1)
-Wives submit to your husbands.....(Ephesians 5:22-23)

    If we as women,children and employee's step outside of these roles
it will only lead to trouble! That's just that...
We are able to step up and take control, we can lead,as women today most of us have to lead and take care of everything alone. Then again if you have a husband allow him to be "the head" and you take the part of "the body".

    We will only thrive at our best if we submit to our roles and yield to the authority established by GOD him self..

   I will be the first to admit I love taking control and usually I'm placed in this role of "the head" of our house.... My husband works away for a month at a time only to return for fourteen days at a time... sometimes I get lock in on the role that I take whiles he away... He is the leader of our home and I have to pass the role back to "the head" and take my role.... We as wives's have to show respect to our men, let them love and teach us..

  Let our men lead in prayer,let them make hard decisions. Allow them to be the man to guide us and teach us, how the lord guides us and showes us the right way.... Don't forget we have been provided with the ultimate book of life..
(THE BIBLE).... Read it! Learn it! It's amazing what God has in line for us all:)

   Children listen to your parents,let us guide you and show you the love we will have forever! Let us guide you with the ultimate love with our father in heaven..Believers share your faith with the unknown... Employee's show up to work and do your job, respect the employer.....  Men don't neglect the role s as leaders... it will only result in unstable homes and broken families, Stand and take pride in the woman you have chosen and of the blessing's God has placed in your life!

   My husband and I haven't always been faith oriented,we did not share a love with the lord or people of that faith....We thought going out and just hanging with un faith like people was fun! Well I'm here to say WE WERE WRONG! Christan people are so much fun I have found family I've never had in a church sister's and brother's through Christ!!!!!

  We grow stronger in the lord everyday and we try to experience everything and anything before shall I say knocking it! ha ha and has our life, our relationships  gotten so much better! 


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Sunday, July 15, 2012

Thankful....

            I find myself thinking about how to express my graduate for my family daily.... Sometimes in life we look at what we don't have and wish for certain blessing to come along,and distant our selves from the many blessing we have now!

       So today I've thought of various expressions,or gestures to show my family just how much i love and care deeply for them.
Now my day's are felled with I love yous and hugg's but sometimes our husband's who have been at work for 12 hour's need alittle more... Or our children need more one on one time to show them that in that moment they are the only one with mommy and daddy's love.

1)Make the kid's dinner early,put them to bed early... When your husband comes home have him bath water ready so he can relax, then make a special candle light dinner....

2)Every year on our kids birthday we have a party yes but we also take that child out with just mommy and daddy! We make it all about them while we are out.... They feel special and loved..My children love one on one time...

3)Summer time is always great for picnic's and social parties..

4)with my two girls they love taking picture's! My son not so much... So give him a daddy and me day, has for the girl's lunch, nail's and hair then off to a photo filled day....

5)Even though there is such a age difference between our three kid's,I still read a good night storey or have a nice little bed time chat with the older ones... I like to think of it as turn down time!

6)Bike rides on a cool night! always a big hit with all kid's:)

7)Get a sitter and spoil your husband with a movie or a few games or pool... take him to a nice dinner and have adult conversation..

8)When the kids do there chores we give them money or a gift they have been working hard for...If the kid's are proving to work hard at home and school take them to pick something they want but cant get with they're allowance...

9)We have little bible studies in our house... It is time with the whole family to be with each other and to grow in faith together.. we have fun with it....

  Theses tips are a few thing's we do around our house and thing's I have thought about doing for the kid's and my hubby...
I hope the following advise work's out for your family...


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